I also seek the best fitting mask I have for whatever situation I'm in when I feel like who I naturally am isn't meshing well.

But you said it man! "My authentic self is loving and will never intentionally be harmful".

I have to remember that for myself and just carry on being me. It's tough but possible. One step more towards shaking off this people-pleasing tendency is a good thing.

Thanks so much for this piece, Art! I appreciate it.