OH it was haha but things are smoothing out now, so it's all good.

Yeah I agree, stressing just takes the situation and makes it heavier to carry. And yes, the now has plenty to enjoy even in the midst of changes. I'm glad you said that because I needed to reminded of that actually. So thank you :)

And yes, it will all get better. Like you said, one day at a time, or even easier, one moment at time.